EroMassagen4u – FAQ Frequently Ask Questions

 

(Version 2.4, 27.10.25)

This page is necessary because I keep getting mostly the same questions from interested parties again and again – I hope this little FAQ explains the most important things to you. These FAQs are a kind of “2nd terms + conditions” to any service offered here on my website or in real personal dating. 

also the basis for any erotic service in real life + service + service packages purchased digitally in my webshops + auctions as a PDF or purchased in person!

Basically in advance:

  • At every meeting I am freshly showered and prepared without perfumes – I expect the same from you! (Exception: sexual accompaniment – here we discuss details)
  • You should have 1-2 large sauna towels to use as a massage pad and 2 bath towels to cover your body for massage services.
  • Household towels, facial tissues or paper handkerchiefs within reach are not bad either!
  • If your phallus (dick) has special dimensions, please take care of your own protection – I am not a department store.
  • A shaved body should be standard and is encouraged on erotic massages so that body contact is more intense and oil consumption is reduced during the massage!
  • There should be a possibility to take a shower afterwards, otherwise I need an additional bath towel.
  • I always work with full physical effort in the case of sexual content only naked and only with organic food oils for allergy sufferers (coconut/olive) – choose as required before booking!
  • For any sex we only need a room, garden, any other place…we can have sex anywhere!

Remember: Personal questions are discussed personally.

Who can book me ?
I mainly meet a) straight and bi women, b) hetero, bi and gay men and c) hetero, bi + gay couples, but ever woman, man and TS who appreciates me and my services is welcome. Please avoid perfumes or fragrances – after all, we want to smell each other…!

I am 18…21 years old – may I like to have my 1st time with you ?
Dears, thank you for being interested in my service, but I have an opinion to that kind of wish: Sorry, I don`t like to serve you! You better should have your 1st time with your partner and not by paid sex!

I am a straight man and would like to gain bi experience – how do I do that ?
Many straight men have this wish and are afraid to express this wish to a man (of same sex)! Often the erotic massage is put forward in the chat just to ask for bi-sex! I know how to deal with it and will help you to fulfil your wish. Since there are no stupid questions, ask anything to get closer to your goal.

I like to do anal intercourse – how do I do that ?
You should know that your anus is a sphincter and learn to relax – like yourself, if you want to enjoy AV! You have to solve 2 problems: 1. “To be emptied”, i.e. there must be no faeces where my dick is supposed to go later – so out with it! You can find out how to do this by searching the Internet, as this is beyond the FAQ here…2. “To be stretched”, i.e. your anus has “to learn” to open itself without feeling pain when something is inserted – this activity is called e.g. “fingering” and “stretching” and is part of sexual preparation – either alone at home at risk or with a professional within my service (this is also a universal game element in sex!)! Another game element is the “anal massage” (outside and inside). And when you anus has learned, the preconditions is done also to have anal sex.

What are vour “Do’s” and “Dont’s” ?
Depending on the job, as male prostitute or porn model there are several “Do’s” and “Dont’s”:

  • “Do’s”: Basically many … anything both prefer – So ask ! 
  • “Dont’s”: Nothing with fecals + blood, no urine + rimming active, no physical + psychic damage

For filming: Do a separate list with “Do’s” and “Don’ts” I can choose + sign!

Do you take Poppers e.g. ?
I am chemical sensitive – so any chemical is taboo!
It is very important for me to know that you want my body and my sexual service, via the acoustic and physical feedback (gestures, facial expressions, behaviour) from you, so I only offer people with mental abilities, for example, a service when I know that this person wants my service of his own free will. I have to be able to recognise what my customer wants through clear signals. If this is not possible, I have a problem with serving you. I can only help you if you help me here!
That’s why I always cancel appointments in the state my customer is drunken or doped during the service and a state of drowsiness restricts the mental state so much that free will is no longer available. Drug use (before and while) is basically taboo in my services! But sure, you can use poppers on your own.
I take some different stuff since nearly 3-4 decades …its “organic”, more helpful for my dick without drowsiness of my mind, you can inform yourself by buying my experiences as “erotic ebook” in my webshop: https://eromassagen4u.com/downloads/natuerliche-potenz (German only!)

I have skin/allergy – which massage oil do you use ?
I’m sensitive to chemicals, so I only use non-toxic organic oils for body massages, which I use to prepare my salads and meals, for example: “coconut oil” (faster skin absorption) or “olive oil” (more oily + rich essential ingrediences), because everything you can use inside your body, can also be tolerated by your skin – just not the other way around…or have you ever voluntarily eaten your skin cream or inhaled your hairspray ? I guess not…

Can I have desired pictures of you ?
Yes, but: Many interested parties ask about it and hope to get free pictures! Take a look at my gallery for free full nude pictures https://eromassagen4u.com/gallery. Extra pictures, is an extra request for a separate service as nude model that I offer as paid service, you can buy here: https://eromassagen4u.com/model/nudemodel – alternatively please watch  “Rates” how much photos, videos or live photos will cost you parallel to other services! Or use alternative service as webcamsex model via https://bongacams.com/profile/eromassagen4u and get in live sessions with me.

What is your hourly rate ?
Fee outcall/escort: Still 100 EUR (average market fee) in mixed calculation.

Are there any discounts ?
Yes, sure, there are many ways to save money:

  • “PopUps” with special offers on this site (to use in webshops)
  • Erotic + sex offers in my webshop / webstore
  • Erotic / sex auctions (individual bids)
  • “Lucky Sex Wheel” (try your daily luck)
  • Erotic voucher (system gets you cheaper prices by you being erotic trader)
  • Members area (Members get extras!)
  • Plus: Loyal customers will be rewarded by customer card “Eromassagen4u Sex Card (ESC)” at page: https://eromassagen4u.com/esc

…gives you several discounts.

Can I visit you ?
No! As escort/callboy I visit you – at home, hotel, office, nature, your truck anywhere else…think! 
Private houses take daily renting a room about 60 EUR and brothels about 120 EUR – that means I would need up to 1-2 customers fix a day to pay my costs, without earning anything…now you know why “outcallers” have different costs with “time travelling”. “Incallers” can offer cheaper, but need more customers a day. My rates are some what lower than the market price for escorts and I have voucher-systems for customers + b2b to save money without loosing earnings or serving qualities!

Can I visit you at home ?
No! Don`t you think I have no rights of a private life beside work ?

What are travel and other costs in the hourly rate ?
As a self-employed, I have various costs that are included in the fee: Unfortunately, I can’t fly yet – that would be free, but my car needs petrol to drive, to visit you flexible in time…

Mixed-calculation: The travel costs include 2 trips (to you and back to me) – a round-trip ticket at a flat rate within a radius of 50-150 km and the other costs include consumables such as organic massage oils, condoms etc.

Travelling cost: They are separated in “areas” for Germany and the Netherlands – e.g “Area 01” is for cities MG to BO and DIN to LEV for 50 EUR and the Netherlands Roermond – Venlo – Eindhoven are 100 EUR – but watch prices beneath “Rates“.

The additional rental of rooms for local reception is an extra on top too – here I receive in Wuppertal (women only) currently only, with 65 EUR/hr room renting extra….so think of, a hotel room is cheaper or best for free at your home!

I have no money – can I have service from you for free ?
Are you kidding ? Sorry dear, NO! Are you working for free in your job too ? Who pays your flat, food, taxes, insurance etc. ? Sorry, if you ask a professional to work for free, you don`t understand the word “Service” or what a “job” / “work” is. Take a look in the internet, there you will find many private people having the same wish – maybe you click together ?

But you have several options to save + earn money with me on this site:

Do I have to pay an advance payment as a new customer?

  • Unfortunately, there are people who don’t act fairly: They order an escort to an non existing address, the person who ordered it isn’t there or the address doesn’t exist at all – these are fakers who act deliberately and make fun of it to cheat on the escort. Nobody needs something like faking.
  • On this site I handle this problem in different way: All services here are paid before service takes place like same you know from standard e-commerce when buying products worldwide online – but here you “buy” erotic and sex service as “product” – from me only!
  • Only known loyal customers pay cash in reality without paying in advance via the webshops on a level of trust! Start becoming one…

“I tell you by chat, I will pay you if you come to me – why won`t you come to me ? You can trust me, I pay you…”
No, I won`t come to you without prepaid booking! Cause I don`t have any security when driving kilometres + time through the country. For these unsecure situations I created this website with an integrated webshop! If you like my service, you must accept my preconditions listed here on the site! Precondition: Paying first – than have service/fun! …if you don`t trust me, search for another service provider than me, who you can trust more…!

How do I book?
Online only, till you are a trusted loyal customer on a level of trust!
Soloservice for singles and couples is only possible by appointment with at least 2 days in advance – couple service only by appointment with at least 1 week in advance

Currently there 10 different ways offered to buy your individual erotic and sex service with me:

  • 01. Automatic booking process via webshop/webstore/construction kits
  • 02. Automated booking process via auctions
  • 03. Booking by 50% Costs (Product in webstore)
  • 04. Manual booking process (Anonymous by Whatsapp + Telegram)
  • 05. Booking Calendar I with paying service
  • 06. Booking Calendar II only reserving timeslot + webshop paying
  • 07. Bonus System (Rewarding your help)
  • 08. Pay with TON via telegram
  • 09. Paying links with bank account or PayPal
  • 10. Prepaid cards (anonymous paying) with a) physical prepaid cards giving away or b) using the digital paying code with PayPal
  • 11. Prepaid anonymously via presafecard via App

Watch details on booking page: https://eromassagen4u.com/booking

How can I get in contact ?
Via mail, telephone, Whatsapp, Telegram and Signal.

..if you have other question not listed here, get in contact with me!

Steven
EroMassagen4u Erotic Entertainment